Hazrat Umar Ne Zyada Mehar Muqarrar Karne Ke Liye Mana Farmaya.
Umar bin khitaab Razi Allah Anho ne kaha : aurto ke mehar mehange nah karo, is liye ke agar yeh duniya mein izzat ki baat hoti ya ALLAH TA'ALA ke Yaha taqwa ki cheez hoti to uske ziyada haqdaar Mohammad ﷺ hote, aap ﷺ ne apni biwion aur baityo mein se kisi ka mehar 12 uqiyyah se ziyada muqarrar nahi farmaya, aur mard apni biwi ke bhaari mehar se boujhal rehta hai yahan tak ke woh mehar is ke dil mein biwi se dushmani ka sabab ban jata hai, woh kehta hai ke mein ne tere liye takleef uthai.
“Umar bin Khattab said: 'Do not go to extremes with regard to the mehar of women, for if that were a sign of honor and dignity in this world or a sign of Taqwa before ALLAH, then Muhammad (ﷺ) would have done that before you. But he did not give any of his wives and none of his daughters were given more than twelve uqiyyah. A man may increase mehar until he feels resentment against her and says: “You cost me everything I own,” or, “You caused me a great deal of hardship.”'” (Hassan)
Ibne Maja 1887 ,Sahih
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